1、有些事情说了也没用，没用就不必说，与其如此，不如保持沉默
Its useless to say something. Its useless to say nothing. Its better to keep silent than that
2、有想法就去做，做了可能会失败，但不做肯定会失败
If you have an idea, you can do it. If you do it, you may fail, but if you don , you will fail
3、不属于自己的东西失去了就失去了，分量再重也失去了，你要做的的只能是着眼现在，忘掉过去
What doesn belong to you will be lost if you lose it. What you have to do is focus on the present and forget the past
4、不矫情，不做作，自己能处理的事情，就自己独立去完成，不要去依赖任何人
Without affectation or affectation, we can handle things by ourselves, and do it by ourselves, and do not rely on anyone
5、女人在该谈钱，该谈道理的时候，不要盲目的去谈感情，独立一些，坚强一些，自尊一些，没有谁的陪伴，天再黑，一样可以一个人回家
When a woman should talk about money and reason, she should not talk about feelings blindly. She should be independent, strong and self-respect. Without her company, she can go home alone in the dark
6、什么磨难都会过去，规划好自己的人生和理想，不要盲目的去决定任何事
What tribulations will pass, plan your life and ideals, and don blindly decide anything
7、这个社会，太单纯，糊里糊涂地和人打交道是会吃亏的，心眼这东西该有的时候还是要有
This society, too simple, muddleheaded to deal with people will suffer, the mind this thing should sometimes have
8、人不能放弃对生活的追求，不能放弃对人生的品质，不能因为曾经的一个小挫折就退缩
People can give up the pursuit of life, the quality of life, or shrink from a small setback
9、情绪这个东西，要学会去控制，当你能够控制自己情绪的时候，你是优雅的
You should learn to control emotions. When you can control your emotions, you are elegant
10、如果对未来很迷茫，静下心来，活好当下，好好享受当下的幸福，才不会错过后来的美好
If you are confused about the future, just calm down, live the present and enjoy the happiness of the present, then you will not miss the future
11、不要太执着于某些不属于自己的东西，不要让这个执着成为自己的心理负担，会很累
Don be too attached to something that doesn belong to you. Don let this attachment become your psychological burden. It will be very tired
12、生活里总是要放弃一些什么，懂得适时放下，会有意想不到的收获
What should we give up all the time in our life? If we know how to give up in time, we will have unexpected gains
