以前我以为只要清者自清就好了，根本不用去在意别人的误解，可是现在我知道了，除了清者自清，还有一个词叫做“人言可畏”！
In the past, I thought that as long as the Qingzhi qingzhi is good, do not have to care about other peoples misunderstanding, but now I know, in addition to the Qingzhi Qingqing, there is also a word called "people speak in awe"!
活在这个世间，你活得比别人累，其实也并不是生活对你太过苛刻，只是我们自己真的太容易被那些外在的不良氛围和情绪所左右了，其实这样根本没必要，毕竟生活就是过给你自己看的，而不是过给别人看的。
Living in this world, you live more tired than others, in fact, it is not that life is too harsh on you, but we are really too easy to be affected by those external negative atmosphere and emotions, in fact, this is not necessary, after all, life is to live for yourself, rather than for others to see.
当你做好准备成长的时候，可能也正是要走上不被别人理解的道路，因为这条成长的道路是你自己选择的那条，而不是别人认为你该选择的那条。
When you are ready to grow, it may be that you have to walk the path of not being understood by others, because the path of growth is the one you have chosen, not the one others think you should have chosen.
其实一见钟情这种事情，虽然浪漫但是却不一定长久，因为一见钟情说得难听点就是见色起意罢了，但是日久生情就不一样了，更多的是和习惯有关，所以通常很难分开，这就说明越慢去爱一个人，就可以爱得越长久。因为爱情是一瞬间的事情，但是久处就需要时间去浇灌。
In fact, although love at first sight is a romantic thing, it may not last long, because love at first sight is just a bad thing, but love will come in time is different, it is more related to habits, so it is often difficult to separate,
which means that the slower you love someone, the longer you can love them. Because love is something that happens in the blink of an eye, but it takes time to water it.
这世间之事反复无常，可能今天让你比较痛苦的事情，等到未来的某一天就会成为你快乐的源泉。
Things in this world are fickle. What may make you miserable today may become a source of joy in the future.
假如你经常抱怨，那么你就会把抱怨当成一种习惯，那么你可能越抱怨，活得越累，你的生活中就都是负面的情绪，你只有放下抱怨，你的人生才会变得渐渐顺利起来。
If you complain a lot, then you will take complaining as a habit, then you may complain more, live more tired, your life is all negative emotions, you only put down complaining, your life will gradually become smooth.
人生在世，每个人都有属于自己的精彩，你没有必要去羡慕和仰望别人，有一句话说得好“你站在桥上看风景，可殊不知桥下的人也在看你”，可能你在羡慕仰望别人的同时别人也在羡慕着你。
Life is alive, everyone has their own wonderful, you do not have to envy and look up to others, there is a good saying "you stand on the bridge to see the scenery, but little do not know the people under the bridge are also looking at you", you may be looking up to others in the envy of others at the same time others are envious of you.
人生有时候真的需要你勇敢一点，勇敢的去爱，勇敢地去恨，勇敢地一路向前，然后再勇敢地忘记，勇敢地重新出发。
Sometimes in life, you really need to be brave, brave to love, brave to hate, brave to move on, and brave to forget, brave to start again.
这个世界上可能有人因为你的一些缺点而讨厌你，但是也会有一些人可能会因为你的真实而喜欢你，其实你就是你，并不是别人眼中的你。
In this world, some people may hate you because of some shortcomings, but some people may like you because of the truth. In fact, you are what you are, not what others think of you.
结语：其实越长大就越会明白，陪伴与懂得，其实比爱情更加的重要。
Conclusion: In fact, the older I grow up, the more I will understand that companionship and understanding are more important than love.
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