一、人总是在失去后才懂得什么是付出；人总是在受伤后才反省没有好好珍惜。如果想要拥有春天，就要把自己像花一样绽放；如果想要获得成功，就认真规划自己的人生，幸福从来都只青睐有心的人。People always know what to give after losing; people always reflect on not cherishing after being hurt. If you want to have spring, you have to blossom like a flower; if you want to succeed, you have to plan your life carefully. Happiness always favors people who have a heart.
二、每一个懂事淡定的现在，都有一个很傻很天真的过去。每一个温暖而淡然的如今，都有一个悲伤而不安的曾经。知世故而不世故，才是最善良的成熟。Every sensible and calm present has a very silly and naive past. Every warm and indifferent today has a sad and restless past. Knowing the world without it is the most kind maturity.
三、你喜欢长发却留着短发，你喜欢苗条却瘦不下去，你喜欢他却得不到，很多事情不是你喜欢就可以的。得不到回应的热情，要懂得适可而止。不亏待每一份热情，不讨好任何的冷漠。
You like long hair but short hair, you like slim but not thin, you like him but can not get, many things are not what you like. If you can get a response, you need to know how to stop. Do not treat every enthusiasm, do not please any indifference.
四、用简单的心境，对待复杂的人生，方能淡看得失，从容入世，潇洒自如，拨开迷雾，拥抱晴天。心变得简单了，世界也就简单了，快乐便会生成。
Only when we treat complex life with a simple mood can we look at the gains and losses lightly, enter the WTO calmly and freely, break away the mist and embrace the sunny day. When the heart becomes simple, the world becomes simple, and happiness comes into being.
五、人性有一个弱点，你越在意什么，什么就越折磨你。当你不再畏手畏脚，当你鼓起勇气，下定决心忠于自己，每一天都将是最好的状态。
There is a weakness in human nature. The more you care about it, the more it torments you. When you stop being afraid of your hands and feet, when you summon up courage and make up your mind to be loyal to yourself, every day will be the best.
六、不要让不好的事情毁了你这一天，乐观一点，开心一点，生命如此短暂，别浪费时间在不值一提的事情上。不要太乖，不想做的事可以拒绝，做不到的事不用勉强，不喜欢的话假装没听见，你的人生不是用来讨好别人，而是善待自己。
Don let bad things ruin your day. Be optimistic and happy. Life is so short. Don waste time on things that are not worth mentioning. Don be too good, you can refuse what you don want to do, don force what you can do, pretend you don hear what you don like, your life is not to please others, but to be kind to yourself.
七、快乐要有悲伤作陪，雨过应该就有天晴。如果雨后还是雨，如果忧伤之后还是忧伤。请让我们从容面对这离别之后的离别。微笑地去寻找一个不可能出现的你！
Happiness should be accompanied by sorrow. It should be sunny after rain. If it rains after rain, if it is sad after sorrow. Please take our time to face the departure after our departure. Smile to find an impossible you!
八、人生最长久的收获，其实就是珍惜。不珍惜你的，说了珍惜也会离开；能珍惜你的，不说珍惜，也会一直在。知缘惜缘才得真缘，将心比心才有知心。
The longest harvest of life, in fact, is to cherish. If you don cherish you, you will leave if you say you cherish; if you can cherish you, you will always be there. Knowing and cherishing ones predestination leads to true predestination, and comparing ones heart with ones heart leads to knowing ones heart.
九、你要和我计较，我绝对不会大方。你要特别慷慨，我绝对比你还敞亮。我知道你很累，是那种看不见的，身体上的，精神上的，人际关系上的，面对未来那种无力感。
If you want to argue with me, I will never be generous. You have to be very generous. Im definitely brighter than you. I know you e tired, invisible, physical, spiritual, interpersonal, and powerless to face the future.
十、好的爱情，战得胜时间，抵得住流年，经得起离别，受得住想念。请不要再出现在我梦中，我已负担不起醒来的落空！生活并无完美，与其让生活带来更多的沮丧与抱怨，不如坚持着一份信念，相信通过努力可以让生活变得更好！
Good love, winning time, can withstand fleeting years, can withstand parting, can withstand missing. Please don appear in my dream again, I can afford to wake up empty! Life is not perfect. Instead of letting life bring more frustration and complaints, we should stick to a belief that life can be better through hard work.
十一、 在对的时间，遇见对的人，是一生幸福；在对的时间，遇见错的人，是一场心伤；在错的时间，遇见错的人，是一段荒唐；在错的时间，遇见对的人，是一阵叹息。
In the right time, meeting the right person is a lifetime of happiness; in the right time, meeting the wrong person is a heartbreak; in the wrong time, meeting the wrong person is absurd; in the wrong time, meeting the right person is a sigh.
十二、一个人值不值得你穷极一生去喜欢，不是看他能对你有多好，而是看他心情不好的时候能对你有多差。我们中间隔着一条名叫缘分的河流，我在此岸，你在彼岸，我过不去，你也不过来。于是我们只能隔河相望，最终我们只能隔阂相忘。
A person is not worth your lifetime to like, not to see how good he can be to you, but to see how bad he can be to you when he is in a bad mood. We are separated by a river called fate. I am on this bank, you are on the other bank, I can cross, you can come. So we can only look at each other across the river, and eventually we can only forget each other.
十三、多么希望岁月能够温柔，待你始终依旧，多么希望在那时光的尽头，与你并肩执手，流年轻转，伊人红妆，在那最美的梦里，一句余生，请多指教。
How I wish that the years will be gentle, and that you will always be the same, how I hope that at the end of the time, hand in hand with you, young, Irish red makeup, in that most beautiful dream, the rest of my life, please give me more advice.
十四、未来不迎，过往不恋，当下的每一个瞬间，就是生命的唯一瞬间。活好了当下，就活好了一生。只要有拒绝就会有伤害，不情愿一定不会好，不要用自己的评判标准附加在别人身上。
The future is not welcome, the past is not loved, every moment of the present is the only moment of life. Live well now, live well all ones life. As long as there is a rejection will hurt, reluctance will certainly not be good, do not use their own criteria attached to others.
十五、 多心的人注定活得辛苦，因为太容易被別人的情绪所左右。有时候，与其多心，不如少根筋。锁上我的记忆，锁上我的忧伤，不再想你，怎么可能再想你，快乐是禁地，生死之后，找不到进去的钥匙。
A multi-minded person is doomed to live a hard life, because it is too easy to be influenced by other peoples emotions. Sometimes, its better to have fewer tendons than to be multi-minded. Lock my memory, lock my sadness, no longer think of you, how can you think of you again, happiness is forbidden, after life and death, can not find the key to enter.
十六、你已经是个大人了，你不能再肆无忌惮的闹脾气，不能再把心里的情绪都摆在脸上，不能再蹉跎你的岁月，你得靠自己多赚一些钱，你得知道熬夜对身体不好，你得学会看场合说话，哭完了还要学会处理那些烦心事。你得承担起一个成年人应有的责任了。
You e an adult. You can be reckless, you can put your emotions on your face, you can waste your time, you have to earn more money by yourself, you have to know that staying up late is bad for your health, you have to learn to talk on the occasion, you have to learn to deal with those worries after crying. You have to shoulder the responsibilities of an adult.
十七、与其指望遇到一个谁，不如指望自己能吸引那样的人；与其指望失落的时候会有阳光的人出现温暖你，不如指望自己变成一个阳光的人。
Its better to expect yourself to attract people like that than to meet someone. Its better to expect yourself to become a sunshine person than to expect the sunshine person to warm you up when you are lost.
十八、你若有意，我将深爱不逾；你若无意，我也绝不牵挂。读懂别人是一种欣喜，被人读懂是一种幸福，怀助人的心，做舒心的事，做单纯的人，走幸福的路，每天给自己一个微笑，种上一天的阳光。
If you intend, I will love you deeply; if you do not intend, I will never care. Reading others is a kind of joy, being understood is a kind of happiness, helping people, doing comfortable things, doing simple people, walking the happy road, giving yourself a smile every day, planting the sunshine of the day.
