不管你有多着急找他，不管你有多沮丧，他总是不愿意和你打交道。
No matter how anxious you are to find him, no matter how depressed you are, he is always unwilling to deal with you.
这种情况在男性身上经常发生：
This often happens in men:
心里有一个人，无法说话，无法相见，无法了解对方的近况，那背后的无奈和悲伤，又有几个人知道呢?
There is a person in my heart who can speak, meet or understand each others current situation. How many people know the helplessness and sadness behind it?
你害怕他会忘记你，害怕你的等待会成为一个笑话。
You are afraid that he will forget you and that your waiting will become a joke.
善良却没有选择，其实是一种愚蠢。
Kindness without choice is actually a kind of stupidity.
现在的你，对他来说是多余的，所以你的一举一动，都会让他毫无理由地从心底生厌恶。
Now you are superfluous to him, so your every move will disgust him from the bottom of his heart for no reason.
明明还在爱着，明明还在憧憬着未来，那么放手又有多容易呢？
Clearly still in love, clearly still looking forward to the future, so how easy is it to let go?
人这一生，总要经历一些困难。
In this life, people always have to experience some difficulties.
但是一旦你失去了一个珍贵的人，你就永远不会放弃。
But once you lose a precious person, you will never give up.
但后来，随着自己的爱爱，慢慢发现了彼此之间存在的问题。
But later, with their love, they slowly found the problems between each other.
在这种情况下，如果对方恰好也是那个不顾他人的人，你的处境就更糟了。
In this case, if the other person happens to be the one who is indifferent to others, your situation will be even worse.
人在感情上太无私，太执着，实在不是一件好事。
People are too selfless and persistent emotionally, which is really not a good thing.
